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Lisa's avatar

Thank you for writing this... So beautifully stated. I feel less alone knowing you and others are experiencing the same thoughts and appreciate the idea of counterweights..

Becca Rowan's avatar

Thank you Lisa! It does help to know we’re all carrying the weight together.

Kim Haas's avatar

This is beautiful, Becca. The act of reading it and savoring your words has been a counterweight for me in this moment. Thank you

Jeanie Croope's avatar

Beautifully stated, Becca. I, too, carry many of the same weights as you do now -- and never thought of what I consider my "escape hatches" as counterweights. It's a wonderful way to think of it.

Becca Rowan's avatar

There are so many names and metaphors for these ways of coping. I have a friend who calls them “small harbors” which I love too. Escape hatches it a great one! When it all gets to be too much, I often think of that old commercial “Calgon, take me away!”

Melynne Rust's avatar

I love this word counterweight. It gives me such a visual of setting down a weight and picking up a counterweight. Thank you, Becca. ❤️